Adopt-A-Grandparent Program

Between the years 1979 and 2035, the total population is expected to grow 38%. However, the elderly population is projected to more than double with the greatest increases among the "old old.”

Gerontologists and social workers maintain that the elderly live longer and are happier when they have a measure of independence in their own home, with a family member or in senior citizens’ housing. As a person ages, he/she becomes frailer and more dependent upon supportive services. This can result in older adults living in an environment that provides medial attention and a protective environment. Medical technology has helped the elderly to live longer, but it does not necessarily give them more satisfying lives.
Besides becoming frailer, older adults must deal with the loss of who they were plus the loss of friends, spouses and relatives. The life of an older adult can be lonely, isolated and frustrating. Family members are the primary care provider for older adults. However, the ability of family members to be caregivers is challenged by the circumstances of today's world and the availability of family caregivers to provide daily care is decreasing. For many older adults there is no family to provide the love, affection and care that is so necessary to insure that they live with independence and with dignity.

The Adopt-A-Grandparent program can help fill this void. The volunteer establishes a special one-on-one relationship with an elderly person. Although the needs of these seniors vary, each volunteer is meant to be a much-needed friend and companion to their "grandparent." Possible activities include shopping, walks, reading and playing games. Volunteers are also encouraged to participate in group activities such as caroling or arts and crafts projects at the residence of the “grandparent.”

The Adopt-A-Grandparent Program is the ideal forum to exercise gifts of loving, listening and caring for others. This is also the place for you if you love the older generation. The main requirement, however, is begin to learn how to receive the gifts the seniors give you. This is an art that takes some doing since most of us are much better givers than receivers.

There are various options for volunteer opportunities with Adopt-A-Grandparent Programs. Some typical kinds of volunteerism include dedicating a certain amount of hours a week/month to visit the same individual, send cards, call and even take them to appointments.

It is important to note that it takes three to six months for the relationship to "gel" – be patient in the beginning. Be a good listener. And remember commitment is the key to making a relationship work. A highly committed “volunteer” is generally the most successful volunteer. You will be rewarded with trust, respect and love.

Shirley M. Freyer is the Director of Public Relations and Development, Concordia Lutheran Ministries and may be reached at 724-352-1571, ext 266 or www.concordialm.org.